In today’s tech savy generation, we are obsessed with boosting productivity in all aspects of our lives, making us constantly looking for ways to improve and often do not leave room and time for self reflection before we jump into new habits and systems.  There seems to be a system of productivity for every industry. From personal to work, we can get overwhelmed with all these systems to make us better and more productive. Overtime, we would probably get all these systems meshed together and their efficiencies will be deflated.…

As kids we remember approaching other kids who are hurt or feel sad and just want to comfort them.  We would would start to feel sad when we see other kids feel sad. It is our natural instinct to cater to those in need or weaker than us but is that instinct still with us as we become adults?  Yes, it is still in all of us but with the pressure of society we have suppressed that instincts and have put forth the instinct of the survival of the fittest…

To have a lasting marriage and lasting career only requires adding one word to your daily routine “desire”.   You may say these days this generation’s desire has increased 10 fold then previous generations.   Look at all the stuff that has been accumulated and the need to want a better career, to want more equal opportunities, to want a better lifestyle.  If you look closer there are two words that are used quite interchangeably, they are the words, “desire” and “want”. These two words at first hearing them, seem to…

Seeing with your heart and not your eyes is something we must practice over and over again. Let us take a look into the apple industry.  It is interesting when you watch how apples are picked, cleaned and packed for selling to consumers. Every apple is harvested from the farm but only a few make it down the conveyor belt and into our grocery store.  Only the unblemished ones are picked. This same process is replicated in every Industry. We never think much of what happens to the apples that…